Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Stop worrying... Start living.. !!!!


Of course, all of us worry about different things in life.. May be about something small or something really big.. Do you worry that you worry about being too worried??? If u worry so much about future, what about the present?

Worries are usually about - what's gonna happen in the future. Why should you think so much about future when our lives are so uncertain. Who knows what's gonna happen tomorrow !!! Future is definitely not in our control. But , the present is.. What we have to do is - Live in the MOMENT. Have fun. Take everything easy.. Every problem will have a solution and everything happens for good. We just must have patience and not let go our confidence.
Maybe you need to learn to be comfortable with risk.

Many of the worries we have may be related to past. Like a heartbreak, or injuries, it haunts us and we want to do everything in our power from preventing it from happening again. But what's the use of brooding over what has already happened. We just need to get the past off our head and live to the fullest in the present.

Of course, it doesn't seem as easy as i'm saying. But, trust me, U can make it easy..
Certain things I feel will make you relaxed and divert your mind from worries -

Firstly, Just don't think too much. Of course you need to think before you act, but don't think too much. Just take the first step and go for it.

Secondly,Spend time with yourself. I find this saying very true- "An idle mind is a devil's workshop". Take up activities to keep busy.Anything that preoccupies you and precludes worrying will be good for you, as long as you don't become addicted to it for that very purpose.

Thirdly,Spend time with friends and family. Whatever you worried about, they could help you out and make you stop thinking about it.

Fourthly and most importantly, Move on. Sure, you could always do more, like anticipating every possible outcome and taking every possible step to prevent each unwanted outcome from happening, but you'll spend your life preventing bad things from happening rather than enjoying the good things that have already happened. And you won't even be able to stop all bad things from happening, anyway!

Every time you think “someday” or “when I have time I will,” stop. Ask yourself, “Why not now?” Think about this sentence, “I always wanted to, but never did.” Start doing the things you always planned to do. Choose your life every morning.

A poster in my room says - After every sad day, comes a glad day.. So, Keep smiling.. !!!
I find this quote really nice.

Past is history, future is mystery but "today" is a gift. That is why it is called "present".


STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING !!!

6 comments:

Unknown said...

Just tooooooo gud sin :)SO so so very true wht u written...hmmm n i knw u already hav implemented in ur lyk :)

Just loved it :) Keep d gud work :)

Sindhu said...

Thnx Maddy :)

Usha said...

It's good. Words should be translated into action to make them meaningful.
usha

Sindhu said...

Yes mom :)

Anonymous said...

Nice post!

Thats very true. You may also want to go through Steve Jobs's speech at Stanford on living life.

The last line is a famous quote which was also used in Kung Fu Panda.

Keep up the good work.

Sindhu said...

Thanks ashwin.. :)